Ok, now I know that no one will post....BUT

I have the opertunity at a AWESOME job, but of course it is not an easy decion to make, cause the job is an hour and a half from me, which means I would have to bord with someone till I saved enough money to move my feance and our son to London...and that would take at least 4 months. Now it still seems like an easy choice to make, but like always there is ALOT of things that come into play...that being, is it fair to my spouse and son to leave them for 4 months, only being able to come back 2 or 3 times a month....and what not, and i also have to think about wheather or not she would move with me.

and then there is the problem of finding a place to stay untill I saved up the money to get my own appartment...I have two people in mind, but one is her aunt and uncle, and the other is a friend, but what if they both say no, then i am screwed.

I know there is more to the problem, btu that is all my mind can think of for now.....

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wish u all the best. i experienced of moving one place to another alone and that's hard. full of headaches and diffidence. and i need to tell myself every minute that my choice was right.

*pat ur shoulder*
» renaye on 2007-11-26 12:03:25

Well, if this job could secure your financial future, it might be a good idea to take it. You should definitely talk about it with your family first, though. If being apart that long is a really big issue maybe you could consider borrowing some money to take them with you, then paying it back once you have enough.
» randomjunk on 2007-11-26 01:46:58

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